You dont have to use that player monitor to use the admin tools. Just take it out and call the old one. That is the easy fix if you dont know how to mod the file.
So our problems appear to have been fixed. We had a coder from dayz priv hosting help us. It seemed to be in the basic.cfg... Changing the bandwith allowed or something like that.
Our server starts having the problem at around 20 people and gets worse every 5 after that. We hit 20 last night after we updated our files, and there were no bugs. We hope most of our players log in tonight for a real stress test. I will get back to you guys tomorrow about the results.
Azazel