I believe, I have found a better way to for the server to pool and load faster when using MYSQL.
This is a lot better then using xampp.
Download Here: https://edelivery.oracle.com/
This is mysql downloaded from http://www.mysql.com/ this will allow for better connection when using mysql.
http://www.mysql.com/why-mysql/topreasons.html
Please note you will need a good server to use, its best if you are using a dedicated server when trying to use this mysql.
Run the download and configure based on these pictures
Installation tab, execute, don't worry if connector/ODBC fails
Configure your server based on this if you are using a dedicated server, other wise just select Server Machine
Check advanced Options
*Note Make sure you have a good dedicated server!
Make a password for the root user of the mysql, then add a user.
Make the user look like this or whatever you want your user to be. This user will be used to connect to the database.
Set the host to localhost. Keep role as DB Admin.
Start workbench.
--Configuring the workbench and importing files--
Connect to the database
Change username to your dayz username
Import the data into the database
Check "Import from self-contained File" and import the sql file
Click New for the target schema
Put the database name for the new target schema.
Start the import
You are finished and ready to connect.
You can use any mysql client to connect and edit the tables.
I have noticed better performance when trying to retrieve the data from the mysql server.